“2017” TIP’S ON – Online DATING SCAMS!

 SeniorMatch.com - the first and largest senior dating site for senior singles in the world, thousands of local and worldwide verified members.!
SeniorMatch.com – the first and largest senior dating site for senior singles in the world, thousands of local and worldwide verified members.!

Online DATING SCAM SAFETY

Being Scammed On The Online dating website?

Well not sure where to start. But here I go, I was sitting at the computer this morning thinking how single PEOPLE, MOSTLY senior people who nowadays who still live in the past times, where people had values and you could take a mans word.

MAN HOW TIMES AND HUMANITY HAS CHANGED

Where a man’s word really meant something and how naive some of us can still be getting conned, and how some of us people can be so vulnerable to scammers. why is it that these idiot scammers take advantage of our kindness? Well let me explain why to listen to me well keep reading I have over ten years of experience as a customer service representative for a very successful online dating company as explained further down in this article.

why is it that these idiot scammers who take advantage of our kindness? Well, let me explain why you should keep reading.I have over ten years of experience as a customer service representative for a very successful online dating company as I will try to explain further down in this article.

it’s really a shame to have someone pretend they will love you just to get what they want. I worked as a customer service representative for a well-known dating site company for over ten years, and boy, have I heard about some scams, it’s terrible, it really breaks my heart that these people were taken so advantage of men and women especially widowed women who are so in need of love, and just trying to find that special one who says they love them,  I guess sometimes loneliness can make a person blind and even make the strongest person weak and simple minded.

These damn scammers who prey upon weak vulnerable souls, they will someday burn in hell. I don’t think there is any forgiveness to someone who doesn’t have a heart, I feel that stealing from or conning, taking advantage of an already heart broken person, trusting, kind soul, a lonely person. this is the lowest of low. all the victims want, is to be loved. it’s a real shame that another person could ever do that to another human being.

Nothing will ever be the same in the victim’s life again. because once the loss of trust for other is gone, it’s gone for good.

But anyway I can’t let my feeling take the best of me because it makes me so angry inside. Be careful to never give out too much info about your finances to anyone if anyone has to ask for any more than the love you have is probably a scammer. anyone who is truly out to love you would never. I mean never ask the one they are courting for anything other than their time. and at our age time is even as valuable.

But wait, don’t totally give up on online dating because there are thousands of singles who are genuine and wanting the same thing you might be wanting like companionship, love, romance or just friendship. don’t let anyone take away a part of your happiness. dating sites can be fun. you can find great friends. you can find your soul mate even. so don’t give up. if you happen to run into an online low life. the most important thing is to use your common sense. and be aware. never give out any financial information. such as credit card number, don’t reveal your personal information social security numbers, birth date, bank account information anything of value other than your heart.

I was employed by a company called Successfulmatch.com and they operate about twenty very successful and mostly safe online dating websites. I got to say from past experience and speaking to some of the poor customers who got scammed, some were scammed out of thousands of dollars and some even re financed or sold their home.

Warning please if you have a gut feeling of something not right. it most likely isn’t and if a scammer is asking a lot about your finances or saying they lost or someone stole their phone and bank cards or they lost any of their possessions and asked if you would kindly lend them something or send them anything, usually it’s money. and Many laptops and phones. I ‘ve heard them all, Don’t do it! maybe it was just a cell phone or laptop or a cashable plane ticket, the point is what ever it maybe, it’s wrong of them to ask someone for anything,  I mean anything at all when it comes to material things until at least you have met them face to face or in person. there are so many con games going on in this sad world just always be aware.

I say even then it’s kind of sketchy to ask someone send anything we have just met, but hey we are human and love has a way of making us all do silly things. do not send anyone who asks for anything other than a love letter. shoot they should be sending us things. , But anyway, the most important thing is always to have your guard up!

SeniorMatch.com - the first and largest senior dating site for senior singles in the world, thousands of local and worldwide verified members.!
SeniorMatch.com – the first and largest senior dating site for senior singles in the world, thousands of local and worldwide verified members.!

The saddest thing is, that People were scammed of their dignity, love, their belief ‘s their integrity their self-esteem, the broken heart they steal your precious emotions after being scammed. scamming is no joke it caused them the victims much embarrassment, humiliation and shame, most people who got scammed won’t even turn them in or ever mention it to anyone, because of the shame and guilt, the embarrassment, the humiliation of being scammed. the fear of people who may judge them, other people such as family members, close friends may call them stupid or nieve for being so easy to be taken advantage of, it’s human nature to feel that way. BUT ..No No!. I can’t stress it enough, please don’t feel that way, you were victims of a self-righteous son of a bitch, a damn looser, a prick with no conscience, a low down dirty rotten thief a monster with no heart. I am sorry if that was harsh, but I have no pity on any human race that can steal from another. Well one thing I can say is about successfulmatch.com is they do try and monitor suspicious activity the security on all their websites, it is really great, Now don’t get me wrong, a scammer sometimes gets through the security monitoring. but they have spent lots of money developing software to prevent some of the scammers and lots of valuable time to help prevent their customers from being scammed on their web sites. Here is a little insight. if it says powered by Successfulmatch.com at the bottom of the website. it is pretty safe and if I was personally going to ever join one it would be this one. Heres a few things to watch out for.

SeniorMatch.com - the first and largest senior dating site for senior singles in the world, thousands of local and worldwide verified members.!
SeniorMatch.com – the first and largest senior dating site for senior singles in the world, thousands of local and worldwide verified members.!

Five valuable tips on how not to be scammed

1. If he or she asks you for anything of value and that includes your heart be on guard, FOR ONE IT’S TOO SOON.

2. if someone’s love is true they would never ask you for anything other than your time. EVEN THEN BE ON GAURD.

3. Use your common sense, that is the best advice I could ever tell anyone. if something doesn’t feel right and you begin to feel suspicious, well, most of the time your gut is telling you to be on alert, use your natural instincts.

4. Talk to someone, ask others for advice. it’s ok too. sometimes someone other can help us come to reality, someone looking in from the outside can help us bring our heads out of the clouds.
We sometimes get caught up in our own emotions, we become silly and giddy, overwhelmed with happiness, the thought of finding one’s soulmate is pure joy and happiness. but that is what scammers prey on. so please be aware, we sometimes drop our own guard down way too soon, and we ignore our own natural defenses. and become open and vulnerable to scams and all them online crooks.

5, Don’t be afraid to join a dating site they can be a lot of fun and bring much joy into our lives especially if we are lonely it’s a social network and some are not online to be social. remember scamming is a scammers job they do this day in and day out, they know how to pick their prey. There is no way any company can stop all scammers. so we need to stay on our toes and stay aware. I know trust comes easy for a lot of us, but scammers don’t care about us, they just want what we can give them. also, look into the online dating site see if it’s a fly by night or a well established online company if any of the dating sites you’re thinking about joining has a verified program. that is a very big safety plus in your favor. do lots of research. see if they have 24 HR live customer support, not many do offer that. when you join, communicate online only and don’t give them your personal home phone number or address for a while. be patient take your time on getting to know them.  get the feel of a person. see what their intentions really are scammers act pretty fast. because a dating website that Successfulmatch owns catches them pretty fast by using IP tracking. it is an internet address, so be aware and always remember a relationship is always best when we become friends first. before we become lovers.
God bless and enjoy your life.

SeniorMatch.com - the first and largest senior dating site for senior singles in the world, thousands of local and worldwide verified members.!
SeniorMatch.com – the first and largest senior dating site for senior singles in the world, thousands of local and worldwide verified members.!

SeniorMatch.com - the first and largest senior dating site for senior singles in the world, thousands of local and worldwide verified members.!
SeniorMatch.com – the first and largest senior dating site for senior singles in the world, thousands of local and worldwide verified members.!

SeniorMatch.com - the first and largest senior dating site for senior singles in the world, thousands of local and worldwide verified members.!
SeniorMatch.com – the first and largest senior dating site for senior singles in the world, thousands of local and worldwide verified members.!

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